IWAS-IWAS DIN SA PAGIGING JUDGEMENTAL MINSAN

Paano niyo malalaman na ang isang tao ay mayaman
sa pamamagitan lamang nang pananamit,
pananalita at pagdadala ng sarili?

Masasabi niyo rin bang mabait ang isang babae
kung hindi makapal mag-makeup?
Na matino ang lalaking walang hikaw sa tenga?

How sure are we na nakabase sa kanilang anyo
ang kanilang pagkatao? Ang galing naman natin
kung nahuhulaan natin dahil lang dito. 

Alam niyo mga, KaChink… Marami sa atin
yung hindi pa nakikilala ang tao ay alam na agad
kung anong ugali o personalidad meron sila.

“Hindi ba’t pagiging judgemental na yan, Chinkee!?”

I agree. Minsan, we are not aware we are already doing this.
Yung simpleng kumento turned to chismis.

“Ano ba yan parang adik!“
“Panigurado pasaway na anak yan”
“Tignan mo naman, bata pa lang ganyan na, sanggano yan paglaki tiyak!”

Ang epekto nito sa iba?

REJECTION, BROKENNESS AND SHAME judgemental

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The words we speak and the actions we portray matters to many.
Kung hindi natin iingatan ang bawat kilos at salita,
may posibilidad na ma-misinterpret tayo
ng iba o kahit ang mismong kausap natin.

Bakit kailangan natin mamahiya ng tao?
O bakit kailangan natin magbigay ng kumento
eh ni hindi naman hinihingi sa atin?

Kung walang magandang sasabihin, quiet na lang.
Dahil sigurado ako na kapag tayo ang ginanito,
we will feel ashamed and rejected as well.

What can we do to avoid this?

SPEAK AND ACT ALWAYS IN LOVE judgemental

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Yung corrections, advices at kahit mga kwento.
Dapat sinasala muna natin bago sabihin sa ibang tao.

“Will this encourage my friend?”
“Yung gagawin ko ba will build her up and strengthen her?”
“Will this make them feel loved and valued?”

Iba-iba ang personalidad na meron ang bawat isa.

Baka yung simpleng…
“Bakit ganyan yung kulay ng damit mo?”

Negative na pala ang epekto sa iba.
Let us mind our own business. 

Malaya tayong gawin ang gusto natin sa ating sarili
as long as wala naman tayo na aagrabyado. 
Give them the freedom too without being judged. 

ALWAYS SEE THE GOOD IN OTHERS judgemental

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Not just the way they look, how they dress,
how good they speak, it’s what’s inside of them.

Besides, kanya kanyang trip yan. 

Halimbawa ako, black and white lang lagi ang suot ko
dahil dun ako kumportable.

Kung mas confident sila na naka make-up, 
let them be. 

The thing is, kahit ano pa ang panlabas na anyo
hindi nito nasususkat ang pagkatao.
THEY ARE MORE THAN THAT!
Kilalanin muna natin sila bago tayo mag assume.

Huwag sana nating kalimutan
na i-appreciate din ang kapwa natin.
Isaalang-alang ang damdamin ng ibang tao.
At maging mapagmalasakit sa bawat isa.

“Huwag nating husgahan ang uri ng isang pagkatao
ayon lamang sa kanyang damit at pisikal na anyo.”
-Chinkee Tan. Filipino Motivational Speaker.    

THINK. REFLECT. APPLY.

• Paano mo tignan ang pananamit ng ibang tao?
• Were your words encouraging or hurtful?

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