3 THINGS TO TELL YOUR SPOUSE ASIDE FROM “I LOVE YOU” TO EXPRESS YOUR LOVE

Madalas ba kayo mag I love you-han
ni mister at misis o ng iyong
babe, mahal, sweetheart?

Aww. sweet naman.

“Ay kami, hindi”
“Ayoko ang baduy non”
“Kakahiya kaya. Pang millennials lang yun”

Wala naman masama
kung hindi natin ito binibigkas.
Meron naman kasing mga mahiyain talaga.
Or yung iba naman, hindi ito
yung paraan para i-express ang pagmamahal.

Pwedeng through gifts, quality time,
Physical touch, acts of service—
Pero ang pinaka paborito ko sa lahat
ng ito? Words of Affirmation pa rin.

Saying I love you is one of the few
ways pero I realized na may iba’t ibang
paraan pala to affirm our love to them.  

Ano-ano naman ito?

“I RESPECT YOU”

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Pwede kasing may I love you nga pero
we don’t give them respect.
Pinapahiya natin sila, sinisigaw-sigawan,
minumura at minamaliit.

May mabigat man na kasalanan,
respect must always be there to
show that despite of, we value them.

“I TRUST YOU”

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Ang sarap sa pakiramdam when
we are being trusted.

Yun nga lang may binigay na project si boss,
tuwang tuwa na tayo, yun pa kayang
manggaling mismo sa asawa o partner natin?

May iba kasi:
“Ako na nga diyan, ‘di mo naman kaya ‘yan”
“Hindi mo alam ‘yan”

Hindi dapat ganito friendships.
Give them the chance to learn
and to prove something.

Paano nila magagawa kung
sa atin pa lang hindi na kaagad pasado
at nahuhusgahan na kaagad sila ‘di ba?

Ipagkatiwala natin.
At ‘pag nagkamali o pumalpak,
sabihin natin…

“I GOT YOUR BACK!”

“Okay lang ‘yan, next time uli!”
“Nandito lang ako for you”
“Kaya nating dalawa ‘yan!”

Nakakikilig isipin na
kahit magkamali tayo ng paulit-ulit
meron at merong sasalo sa atin,
naniniwala, at nagsisilbing cheering squad ika nga.

Na ‘di bale nang talikuran tayo ng iba
pero kapag sila ang nandiyan,
wala na tayong mahihiling pa.

We need to believe in them
para ma boost ang kanilang confidence.
Na kahit mahirap o masakit,
hindi nila kailangang pagdaanang mag-isa ito.

“Masarap pakinggan ang I LOVE YOU pero mas maganda kung pati I GOT YOUR BACK, I RESPECT YOU, at I TRUST YOU. Dahil balewala ang I love you kung hindi naman natin naipapakita ang mga ito”
-Chinkee Tan, Filipino Motivational Speaker

THINK. REFLECT. APPLY.

• How do you express your love to your spouse or partner?
• Sa likod ba ng I love you ay nirerespeto ba natin sila, pinagkakatiwalaan, at hindi iniiwanan?
• What can you still improve?

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