OOPSS! SELF-CHECK MUNA BAGO ANG IBA

Kung may makita kayo na puting dingding,
pagkatapos ay natuluan ng itim na pintura.
Ano ang una ninyong mapapansin?
Ang pagkaputi at tingkad ng dingding,
o yung pinturang itim na nagsilbing dungis sa dingding?

Aminin man natin o hindi, madalas ganito tayo.
Iisang pagkakamali out of ten ng isang tao,
madalas hindi na natin ito makalimutan.
Yung tipong nabalewala lahat ng magagandang nagawa
dahil lamang sa isang pagkakamali.

Ever experienced or encountered this situation?
Parasa nakapupuna, madali lang siguro.
Pero para sa iba na madalas na-ja-judge…
totoo, may patunay man o wala, ito ay mahirap.

MAG-SELF CHECK MUNA TAYO BEFORE LOOKING AT OTHER’S FAULT

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Hindi naman tayo iba sa ibang tao.
Lahatnaman tayo ay nagkakamali,
but it’s still not justifiable to judge others.
Lalo na kung hindi pa natin nakikilala.
Wala pa tayong idea kung ano ba talaga ang nangyari.
o kaya naman ay nakiki-comment lang tayo.

Baka mapagkamalan pa tayong nakiki-chismis sa ganitong gawain.
This is not healthy lalo na sa isang relationship, or sa friendship.
Instead of building others up, we are putting them down.

Before giving comments o mag-judge
sa kung ano ang nagawa o ginawa nung tao,
bakit hindi natin punahin muna ang sarili?
Tayo ba ay namumuhay nang may takot sa Diyos?
O nagbabalat-kayo dito sa mundo?

HUWAG PADALOS-DALOS

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Alam n’yo yung tinatawag nilang “bugso ng damdamin”?
Madalas maraming napapahamak sa ganito.
Yung tipong may nakita lang na pagkakamali sa iba,
sa kanila na agad yung paninisi
kahit wala pa namang nakitang facts or proof of the fault.
Madalas dito rin nagsisimula ang conflicts.

Mas makabubuting makaiwas dito
kung magtatanong muna tayo sa tao,
titimbangin ang sitwasyon, ang comment ng isa’t isa
na walang any hint of biases at may malinis na konsensya.
Because how we look at ourselves and others matter.

ALWAYS FIND THE GOOD SIDE OF PEOPLE

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Not that we are ignoring “unwanted attitude” as what they say,
but looking on a perspective
where we value more the goodness of one’s heart.
Balik tayo dun sa tanong ko nung umpisa.
Ano ang una ninyong mapapansin?
Ang pagkaputi at tingkad ng dingding,
o yung pinturang itim na nagsilbing dungis sa dinding?

It’s just a matter of mind setting, mga KaChink.
Instead of focusing on the negative side of a person,
let us exert every effort to know
and discover the better side of them.

“Bago natin punahin ang pagkakamali ng iba,
tignan muna natin ang ating sariling pagkatao kung tayo ay naging mabuti ba.”
-Chinkee Tan. Filipino  Motivational Speaker.

THINK. REFLECT. APPLY.

• Madalas ka bang makapansin ng pagkakamali ng isang tao?
• Ano ang una mong response dito? Do you ask first or conclude na agad?
• Ano ang pwede mong masimulan para mabago ang ganitong pag-uugali?
  

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