May mga tao ka bang nakausap na kahit anong paliwanag mo, hindi ka nila pinapakinggan?
Naririnig nila ang mga sinasabi mo, pero hindi nila tinatanggap.
Nakakapagod, nakakainis at walang patutunguhan.
There are two choices you can make.
First…
REASON WITH AN UNREASONABLE PERSON
– which I believe is a waste of time.
WHY IS IT A WASTE OF TIME?
Kahit anong ipaliwanag mo, hindi naman sila makikinig.
Buo na ang kanilang loob at pagpapasya.
Hindi naman sila nagkakamali.
Pinaniniwalaan lang naman nila kung ano ang gusto nilang paniwalaan.
Gusto lang naman nila na pakinggan kung ano ang feeling nila.
Or second option mo…
TRY TO UNDERSTAND WHERE THE PERSON IS COMING FROM
Learn to avoid being in a confrontational situation.
Let us pray that one day, they will be enlightened.
The fact is, even if you win the argument.
In the end, no one wins, everyone loses.
“Huwag mong sayangin ang oras mo na makipag-usap sa mga taong UNREASONABLE.”
-Chinkee Tan, Top Motivational Speaker Philippines
THINK. REFLECT. APPLY.
- How do you deal with unreasonable people?
- Papatulan mo ba o hindi?
- What do you think is the wise thing to do?
- Blessed are those who are peacemakers.
Chinkee Tan is a Wealth Coach, Keynote Speaker, and Best-selling Author on personal finance and wealth management. He has written 16 best-selling books and counting. His mission is to equip millions of Filipinos to be free from financial stress & experience financial freedom.