May nagawa ka na bang bagay na pinagsisishan mo? Ang tagal mo nang pagkakamali pero di mo pa rin makalimutan. Para siyang mabigat na maleta na pasan-pasan mo hanggang ngayon.
Sinisisi mo ang iyong sarili na hindi ka na makapag-isip ng tama, ni hindi ka na rin makagawa ng tamang desisyon?
Lalo pang bumibigat ang feeling of guilt dahil ito ay parating pinapaalala ng mga taong nakapaligid sa iyo.
Parati kang pinagsasabihan na huwag mong ituloy ang plano pero ipinaglaban mo? Huli na noong na-realize mo na mali pala ang iyong desisyon.
At sinisingil ka na ngayon, pauli-ulit na sinasabi sa iyo, “Ang tigas kasi ng ulo mo! Kung nakinig ka lang sa amin. Hindi magiging ganoon ang buhay mo.”
Kapag ikaw naman ay nag-iisa, ninamnam mo nanam sa iyong isipan, “Oo nga, tama nga, kasalanan ko ito. I deserve this life. It is my fault.”
Lahat naman tayo ay nagkakamali, pero huwag mo naman parusahan ang iyong sarili sa iyong maling nagawa. Do not allow the mistakes of your past to make you become a prisoner in the present Do not also allow others to torture you because of your past mistakes.
At para sa mga taong pinapaala sa iyo ang iyong pagkakamali:
Tignan mo ang kanilang motibo. Are they doing it to encourage you or destroy you?
Concern ba sila sa iyo o gusto lang nilang sirain lalo ang buhay mo?
Gusto mo na ba maka-move on?
Alam mo ba bakit ka hindi maka-move on?
Kasi hindi mo pa NAPAPATAWAD ang iyong SARILI.
Alam mo ba na ang pinakamahirap na gawin sa buhay ng isang tao ay PATAWARIN ANG KANIYANG SARILI.
Kung nahihirapan ka man, ako na ang nakikiusap sa iyo, GIVE YOURSELF ANOTHER CHANCE.
Kung ang ibang tao nga napapagbigyan mo, bakit hindi mo mapagbigyan ang iyong sarili.
Why are you TOO HARD on yourself?
Ok lang naman na mataas ang iyong standard, but if you fall short sa sariling mong expectations. Give yourself room for improvement. You deserve another chance in life. Time to pick up the pieces and learn how to move on.
THINK. REFLECT. APPLY.
What lessons have you learned from your past mistakes
Are you willing to move on?
Is there a chance for you to forgive yourself?
Do you think it is best for you to give yourself another try?
Chinkee Tan is Filipino motivational speaker who continues to inspire thousands of people through his books, speaking engagements, free business seminars in the Philippines and blog posts. Married to his lovely wife, Nove Anne and living the life with 3 beautiful children, he is now considered to be one of the famous motivational speakers in the Philippines because of his passion to educate people with topics such as family, personal development and financial management to name a few. People are just curious and excited to hear from him as he frequently gets invitations to be a motivational corporate speaker in their companies. We hope that you also learn and absorb a lot wisdom and motivation from our wealth and life coach, Chinkee Tan.
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Chinkee Tan is a Wealth Coach, Keynote Speaker, and Best-selling Author on personal finance and wealth management. He has written 16 best-selling books and counting. His mission is to equip millions of Filipinos to be free from financial stress & experience financial freedom.