“Eh siyempre pinaghirapan ko ito, tapos ipapamigay ko lang?”
“Magtrabaho din sila. Masasanay lang mga yan eh”
“Kanya kanya! Ang lagay ako kumakayod sila taga-sahod?”
“Eh bakit di sila gumawa ng sarling paraan?”
May mga kakilala ba kayong tao na wala ng ibang inisip kundi ang kanilang sarili? Yun bang nasa harapan na nila ang humihingi ng tulong pero parang nagbubulag-bulagan o nagbibingi-bingihan lang sila?
Yes, you might have everything that you wished for, pero ang tanong “Masaya ka ba?”
Tandaan mo na ang pagkakaroon ng maganda at masaganang buhay ay hindi lang sa paglilikom kung hindi sa pagbibigay.
And when we choose to share, gaganda at liligaya ang ating buhay.
WHY SHOULD WE SHARE?
SHARING IS A CALLING AND NOT A COMPETITION
Kailangan natin tandaan na ang pagbabahagi ng kung ano meron tayo ay hindi parang kompetisyon, palakasan, o para bumango ang pangalan. Ito’y kusang loob na nararamdaman.
Sa panahon ng kalamidad, nagbigay tayo ng relief goods dahil alam natin na sa paraang ito, madami tayo matutulungan. Pero kung ikaw ay nagbigay para mai-post lang sa social media at gusto umani ng papuri, dun na pumapasok ang pagiging competitive natin at self-centered.
This is all about the mission to be able to help others and not about ourselves.
WHEN WE SHARE, OUR NEEDS WILL BE TAKEN CARED OF
Sabi nga, there’s nothing more that we should do but to share what we have at yung mga pangangailangan natin, si Lord na ang bahala sayo as His reward for our sincere generosity.
Mapapansin mo ito kapag minsang walang wala ka pero nagbibigay ka pa din sa church o sa mga gusto mo tulungan di ba? Tapos bigla nalang may nagbayad ng utang sayo, may nakita kang nakaipit na pera sa wallet o pantalon mo, o di kaya???y nagka-bonus ka bigla.
Huwag ka nang magtaka, yan ang reward mo sa ginawa mong kabutihan!
SHARING IS THERAPEUTIC
Being generous can make us happy, walang duda. Because you see, the moment you hand over help, whether it is cash, goods, time, or kahit anong maluwag sa dibdib mo, nakakawala ng problema, fear, at worries yung mga ngiti mula sa mga taong natulungan mo. And that is the best gift that you???ll ever receive in return.
In effect, mahahawa ka and for sure, makakapagpalambot lalo ng puso.
SHARING MAKES YOU APPRECIATE THE LITTLE THINGS
Minsan, sa sobrang pre-occupied na natin with the money or material things that we have, dun nalang umiikot ang mundo natin and we don???t get to see the real beauty of life that surrounds us.
Just have enough for what you need and learn to let go, para iba naman ang makinabang.
The essence of life is all about what our eyes can see that money can???t buy, tulad ng pamilya, kaibigan, kabutihan ng bawat tao, or environment na ginagalawan mo ngayon.
Huwag mong hayaang mawala ang mga ito sa???yo.
THINK. REFLECT. APPLY.
Chinkee Tan is a famous motivational speaker in the Philippines. He specializes in topics such as personal development, building and strengthening relationships and financial management to name a few. To this day, he continues to inspire thousands of people through his books, free business seminars in the Philippines, social media and being invited to be a motivational corporate speaker to different organizations.
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Chinkee Tan is a Wealth Coach, Keynote Speaker, and Best-selling Author on personal finance and wealth management. He has written 16 best-selling books and counting. His mission is to equip millions of Filipinos to be free from financial stress & experience financial freedom.