Siya na nangutang, siya pa galit.
Nag-magandang loob ka na, parang ‘di pa kuntento.
Pinahiram na nga, maninira pa kapag siningil.
Mahirap kapag pera na ang pumasok sa usapan. Sa una, okay okay pa pero kapag singilan time na, parang ang laki pa ng kasalanan natin.
Ganun talaga, we can’t change how they deal with us pero may magagawa tayo para hindi tayo mahawa sa galit nila.
LAWAKAN ANG PANG-UNAWA
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Kung nagpahiram o nagmagandang loob pero nega ang dating sa kanila, isipin na lang na baka malaki ang problema nila.
Money issues can make a person angry, stressed and disoriented.
Kaya minsan hindi na nila alam na nakakasakit na sila.
They have so much going on and we need to understand that.
Doing so allows us to be the bigger person at hindi mapag-patol.
Lesson learned, lend kung ano lang ang kaya, mawala man, hindi man mabayaran, hindi masyado mabigat para sa atin.
TRY TO BE A FRIEND
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Ano ba ang ginagawa ng isang mabuting kaibigan?
‘Di ba, nakikinig at nagbibigay ng opinyon na tingin nati’y makabubuti sa kanila?
We can reach out to that person. Talking and threshing out issues can be therapeutic.
Baka naman kailangan lang niyang mag-vent o mag-pagpag ng sama ng loob.
Sabi nga, two heads are better than one. We can help that person think of ways para makalabas sa kinalalagyan nila.
PRAY FOR THEM
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Pray that God will ease the pain in their hearts and uplift their spirits.
Pray that God will give them wisdom and financial provision.
“Kung sino ang mas kaya UMUNAWA, siyang MAPAGBIGAY at marunong MAGPARAYA”
-Chinkee Tan, Wealth Coach Philippines
THINK. REFLECT. APPLY.
- Palagi kabang nasusungitan?
- Handa ka bang umunawa sa mahal mo sa buhay?
- Paano mo sila matutulungan?
Chinkee Tan is a Wealth Coach, Keynote Speaker, and Best-selling Author on personal finance and wealth management. He has written 16 best-selling books and counting. His mission is to equip millions of Filipinos to be free from financial stress & experience financial freedom.