Naranasan mo na bang sumabay sa uso?
Yun bang kung ano ang meron at gawin ng mga friends ko, pilit mo rin silang tularan?
Feeling mo ba na OP (out of place) ka kung hindi ka nila kasama.
My suggestion is, kung ayaw nila sa iyo, huwag mong pilitin. Huwag mong pilitin na maging tulad ng iba.
Bakit? It’s because of these two important reasons. First . . .
YOU ARE UNIQUE
God CREATED you to be unique. Posibleng may similarities ka sa iyong mga pamilya pero WALA KANG KATULAD. Meron at meron na kakaiba sa’yo compared sa ibang tao.
The WORST thing that can happen to a person is trying to be someone that you’re not. Imagine, ikaw ay organized na tao at gusto mo planado lahat ng iyong gastos. Pero dahil gusto mong maging “in” sa isang grupo na mga sosyalera, magpapakagastador ka na din.
Yes, you’ve gained “friends” but in the process, you’ve lost YOURSELF. Nawala na yung TOTOONG IKAW at ang nabubuhay na lang ay ang FAKE VERSION of yourself.
Second reason is, your . . .
VALUES ARE WORTH KEEPING
Bawat isa sa atin ay may pinanghahawakan na PRINSIPYO. At may ilan sa atin na binabalewala ito just to fit into the crowd or ang iba naman ay dahil sa hirap kumita ng pera.
For example ang prinsipyo mo ay to show INTEGRITY sa iyong trabaho. At first, totoo pa naman yung mga good qualities na sinasabi mo about your product. Pero dahil ayaw pa din bilhin ng customer at gusto mong ipilit sa kanya ang iyong produkto, makakapagsabi ka na ng mga EXAGGERATED qualities about it nang hindi namamalayan na ito ay nagiging deception na.
Ang sasabihin mo, sobrang effective talaga na pang weight loss ng iyong produkto kahit WALA NANG EXERCISE na kasama. Yun pala ang totoo ay effective even with MINIMAL EXERCISE. Minsan kasi sa sobrang kagustuhan natin na ipilit ang ating mga sarili, nadi-disregard na natin yung mga maliit na mga difference that may cause us our integrity.
Yun ang dalawang factors kaya hindi natin dapat ipilit ang ating mga sarili sa ibang tao.
We are all UNIQUE at kung hindi man tayo matanggap sa isang circle of friends kung saan natin gusto mag-join, for sure may nilaan din si God na ibang circle of friends kung saan tatanggapin ang TOTOONG PAGKATAO natin.
We need to take care of our VALUES at huwag hayaan na ipagpalit ito sa kahit na ano, lalo na sa pera. Because as long as we are firm in our good principles, we will become SUCCESSFUL.
THINK. REFLECT. APPLY.
Naranasan mo na bang gayahin ang ibang tao?
Kung oo, bakit mo yun nagawa?
Ano ang natutunan mo sa pangyayari na yun?
If you have many plans, goals and dreams in life but do not know where and how to start. If you want to know more and learn on how you can create a plan and a strategy.
I want to invite you to my very first public meeting on January 16, 2016 (9AM-5PM)
3rd Floor Eastwood
3F, Units 3A-3F, City Walk 2, Eastwood City
READY SET GOAL
“The Power of Goal Getting”
In this session you will learn:
Why do we need a Goal?
Why do we people never reach their Goals?
How can you set Realistic Goals?
How to Identify and Prioritize your Goals?
How to Hit your Financial Goals this 2016?
For more info, please visit https://readysetgoal.info or call this number 0920-949-4975
Chinkee Tan is a famous motivational speaker in the Philippines. He specializes in topics such as personal development, building and strengthening relationships and financial management to name a few. To this day, he continues to inspire thousands of people through his books, free business seminars in the Philippines, social media and being invited to be a motivational corporate speaker to different organizations.
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Chinkee Tan is a Wealth Coach, Keynote Speaker, and Best-selling Author on personal finance and wealth management. He has written 16 best-selling books and counting. His mission is to equip millions of Filipinos to be free from financial stress & experience financial freedom.