Have you been committing the same mistakes over and over again, tapos deep inside nasabi mo nalang na sa sarili mo na…
“Bakit ko ba nagawa ulit ito?”
“Saan ba ako muling nagkamali?”
“Hindi na ba talaga ako matututo?”
Naiinis ka na sa sarili mo dahil parati ka na lang pumapalpak, in terms of learning from your mistakes. Paulit-ulit mo nalang ginagawa yun. Hindi ka lang repeater, parang nag-masteral ka pa sa dami nang beses nauulit ang mga pagkakamali na iyon.
Kung gusto mo nang matigil ito, well, keep on reading.
I want to share some practical tips on how you can really learn from your mistakes so that you will be able to avoid them.
First, you have to …
ACKNOWLEDGE IT
Dapat ay ma-RECOGNIZE mo kung ano talaga ang pagkakamali na nagawa mo.
It’s not enough for people to tell you your mistakes. Dapat TANGGAPIN mo na nagkamali ka nga.
The best way para malaman mo kung ano nga ba talaga yung mga pagkakamali mo is to have SELF-ASSESSMENT.
Be HONEST with yourself dahil ito ang best help that you can get para matuto ka talaga mula sa iyong pagkakamali at nang sa gayon ay hindi mo na ito maulit.
It’s also important that you …
OWN IT
Madalas kasi ang tendency natin ay IPASA ang sisi sa ibang tao. Ayaw mong akuin nang BUO ang iyong pagkakamali.
Pipilitin mong PAKAUNTIIN at PALIITIN yung pagkakamali na iyon at nagpapaka-generous ka pang i-share ang pagkakamali mo sa ibang tao.
Sasabihin mo, “E, ganito talaga ako! Alam ko may mali ako pero dapat marunong din sila mag-adjust!”
The BEST way for you to really learn from your mistakes is to TAKE FULL RESPONSIBILITY sa alam mong naging pagkakamali mo.
The next thing you can do is to …
CORRECT IT
Be INTENTIONAL sa pag-tama nga mga pagkakamali mo.
Isantabi mo ang “BAHALA NA” principle at pag-isipan mong mabuti kung papaano mo maiiwasan ang pagkakamali na ayaw mo nang magawa ulit.
Kahit ang ganitong bagay ay kailangan mong PAGPLANUHAN. Remember this, “if you fail to plan, you plan to fail”. At kapag may plano ka, alam mo kung anong TAMANG DISKARTE para maiwasan na magawa mo ulit ang mga naging pagkakamali mo.
Knowing that you should not commit the same mistakes again is one thing, but ACTING PURPOSELY and SKILLFULLY so that you don’t do it again is a different story.
THINK. REFLECT. APPLY.
If there is one question that I would like to ask, it is this:
“What big lesson could someone learn from your life?”
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Chinkee Tan is a famous motivational speaker in the Philippines. He specializes in topics such as personal development, building and strengthening relationships and financial management to name a few. To this day, he continues to inspire thousands of people through his books, free business seminars in the Philippines, social media and being invited to be a motivational corporate speaker to different organizations.
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Chinkee Tan is a Wealth Coach, Keynote Speaker, and Best-selling Author on personal finance and wealth management. He has written 16 best-selling books and counting. His mission is to equip millions of Filipinos to be free from financial stress & experience financial freedom.