Kapag naaalala mo siya, naiinis ka?
Check!
Kapag nadidinig mo ang pangalan niya,
nagpapanting ba ang tenga mo?
Check!
Kapag nakikita mo siya sa social media
kating-kati ka na paringgan?
Check!
At kapag napapag-usapan yung taong iyon
kulang na lang murahin sa galit?
Check!
Nako, senyales na ‘yan na tayo
ay nagtatanim ng sama ng loob.
Seedlings lang nung una,
naging puno na ngayon
sa sobrang lalim at tagal
na nating kinikimkim.
Biruin mo, ilang linggo, buwan,
at taon na ang lumipas,
heto pa rin tayo, nanggagalaiti sa galit.
Hindi naman ito maiiwasan.
Maari kasing malalim ang ating pinaghuhugutan
dahil sa mga nagawa nila noon.
Pero alam niyo bang
hindi maganda ang mamuhay
ng may bigat at sama ng loob?
Bakit?
WALA NA TAYONG KATAHIMIKAN loob
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Madinig, makita, o maaninag lang natin sila
para bang bumibilis ang tibok ng puso natin.
Wala na tayong ginawa kundi umiwas at
mangarap na sana hindi magtagpo ang landas.
“Hindi ako pupunta, nandu’n pala siya.”
“Ay, aattend s’ya? Huwag na lang..”
“Uy si ano yun ah! Hay nako kainis of all places!”
Parang inaalisan natin ang ating sarili
ng kalayaan na maging mapayapa ang puso at isip.
Aba mahirap iyong ganon ah
na para tayong nakakulong —
Eh hindi naman dapat ganito, ‘di ba?
Kaya…
LEARN TO FORGIVE
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“Ha? Forgive? Pagkatapos niya ako ipagpalit?”
“Never! Walang kapatawaran ang ginawa niya.”
“Hindi ko inaasahan ito, bahala siya!”
I understand what they did was wrong na
sa sobrang lalim parang ayaw na nating
bigyan ng chance.
But you know what?
Forgiveness doesn’t mean na
we have to deal with them again
na “Just like the good old days”.
It just means, letting go of the past.
Magkita man, magkasalubong man, o
madinig man ang kanilang pangalan,
balewala na sa atin ang lahat.
Ibig sabihin lang din, we are ready to move on
and start a new life na walang poot sa dibdib.
MOVE ON!
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Kung tayo man ay sinaktan, niloko,
pinagtulungan, o nasabihan ng masasakit na salita,
It means we don’t deserve them in our lives —
And that’s okay.
Hindi naman lahat ng taong nakikilala natin
must be kept especially kung tayo
ay inaabuso at sinasaktan.
Pero paano nga ba?
Be with people who cares for us.
Surround ourselves with happy people,
who will respect and won’t hurt us.
There are a lot of reasons to help us move on.
Be happy and free!
“Tandaan na pera ang dapat iniipon hindi sama ng loob sa kapwa.”
-Chinkee Tan, Filipino Motivational Speaker
THINK. REFLECT. APPLY.
- Kanino ka may sama ng loob?
- Bakit anong nagawa sa iyo?
- How can you finally break free from the anger?
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Chinkee Tan is a Wealth Coach, Keynote Speaker, and Best-selling Author on personal finance and wealth management. He has written 16 best-selling books and counting. His mission is to equip millions of Filipinos to be free from financial stress & experience financial freedom.