PAGMAMAHAL NG ANAK SA MAGULANG

Gaano kadalas ang minsan?
Ang minsan na masabihan
si Nanay at Tatay ng “I love you”.
Ang yakapin sila ng mahigpit
na parang wala nang bukas.

Ang maipaalala sa kanila na sila’y mahalaga.
Hindi lang ngayon, bukas
o sa susunod na mga araw,
kundi araw-araw habang sila’y buhay at malakas pa.

Sabi nila, “Only God knows
until when we will live here on earth.”
Hihintayin pa ba nating uugud-ugud,
mahina, makakalimutin at hirap silang magsalita
bago natin ma-realize that they are not
growing young anymore?

I believe, we all love our parents
as much as they love us also.

Pero bakit may mga pagkakataon
na parang ang hirap ipadama sa kanila
ang pagmamahal at pag-aaruga?

WE FEEL LIKE BEING EXPRESSIVE AT TIMES MEANS BEING CORNY

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Tayo ba yung hindi sanay sa hugging,
and being expressive such as saying “I love you”?

“Allergic ako d’yan, Chinkee!”
“Masyadong corny, I kenat!”

There’s this mindset that expressing our feelings
is being corny, uncool or unusual.

So instead of verbally expressing it,
minsan pinapabayaan na lang natin.
Or we stick to the thought of…

“Alam naman na nilang mahal ko sila, so no need to tell.”

BUT SAYING THAT WE LOVE THEM LIGHTEN THEIR HEARTS

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They might know that we already love them.
Pero hindi ba’t mas ikasisiya nila
kung ipapaalala ulit natin sa kanila?

Kung tayo nga na minsan ay pinupuri
dahil sa magandang nagawa,
ang ating mga magulang pa kaya
na ang gusto ay malaman ding mahal natin sila?

Sa hirap na kanilang pinagdaanan
mapalaki lamang tayo nang matino at tama,
sa totoo lang, walang binatbat
ang simpleng “I love you” para sa kanila.

BECAUSE FOR THEM, RECEIVING AN “I LOVE YOU” MEANS SO MUCH

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Lalo pa’t nagkakaedad na sila ngayon.
At the age of 50 and above,
sometimes they overthink.

“Paano na lang kung hindi ko na kayang gumawa ng gawaing bahay sa katandaan?”
“Sino kayang mag-aaruga sa akin kung matanda na ako?”
“May makakaalala pa kaya sa akin?”

Katulad nating mga anak, nakararamdam din sila
ng pangungulila lalo na kung malayo tayo sa kanila.

We might have our own families,
and our parents are already growing old,
for them, it’s a great joy when we tell them…

“Pa! Ma! I love you!”

“Mahalin natin ang ating mga magulang habang sila ay malakas pa.
Huwag sanang dumating ang pagkakataon na tayo ay magsisi
dahil hindi natin ito naiparamdam sa kanila.”
-Chinkee Tan. Filipino Motivational Speaker.

THINK. REFLECT. APPLY.

• How do you express your love to your parents?
• Are you struggling to show that you really care?
• What other ways can you show your love and care for them?

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