Meron ka bang mga nagawang decisions na pinagsisisihan mo hanggang ngayon?
Is it eating you up inside?
Yung tipong hindi ka na nakakatulog ng maayos?
Pero alam mo ba kapatid,
It’s okay for us to learn from the past but it is imperative that we do not to live in it. Why?
The past is done.
We cannot undo the mistakes of the past but we can change our future if we make the right decisions.
And for us to make things right, here are three important points you might want to consider:
Never allow the mistakes of your past to steal your dreams.
We should learn to fight for our dreams and ambitions.
Though we may be disheartened when we are reminded of our mistakes but we should focus on the prize ahead in order for us to finish the race.
Never allow negative people to influence you.
Kailangan din nating iwasan ang mga taong who put us down. Sila yung mga taong walang bilib sa atin, mga taong puro pangit at pagkakamali ang nakikita sa atin, mga taong hinahatak tayo pababa, at mga taong puro paninira ang laman ng bibig. We should protect ourselves from these kind of people.
Never allow your emotions to take control of you.
We should be wise enough to make a wise decision for us to move towards the direction that we really want in life. Kapag hindi tayo naging wais at puro emotions ang pinairal natin, tayo rin ang kawawa sa huli. Why?
Because emotions are unstable. Hindi natin ito maaasahan. Pabago-bago ito at paiba-iba ng pakiramdam. When we don’t control our emotions, our emotions will be the one to control us.
Kung nagkamali tayo at may mga maling desisyon sa ating buhay, hindi tayo dapat mawalan ng pag-asa dahil hangga’t humihinga tayo, mayroong pag-asa. Magfocus tayo sa ‘ngayon’ at huwag tayo mag-dwell sa ‘kahapon’.
At the end of the day, we have a choice.
“Never allow the mistakes of your past steal your dreams.”
-Chinkee Tan, Top Motivational Speaker Philippines
THINK. REFLECT. APPLY
- Kamusta ang mga pangarap mo?
- Sino ang mga taong nakapaligid at umi-impluwensya sayo?
- Are you wise enough when it comes to handling your emotions?
Chinkee Tan is a Wealth Coach, Keynote Speaker, and Best-selling Author on personal finance and wealth management. He has written 16 best-selling books and counting. His mission is to equip millions of Filipinos to be free from financial stress & experience financial freedom.