NUNG SINGILAN, NANG SEEN-ZONED LANG

Mahilig ba kayo magpa-utang?
Eh, ang mangutang?

Friend: Bes, may extra ka ba d’yan?
Me: Meron naman. Ano yun, Bes?
Friend: Pwede bang mangutang? Bayaran din kita next week.
Me: Sige, Bes. Anong account number mo?
Friend: 1234567890
Me: Okay na nakapag fund transfer nako. Kita tayo sa cafe next week
para chika chika na din.
Friend: (sent a ‘like’ icon)
Friend: Salamat! See you! (insert smiley with a big smile)

Then here comes the week nang bayaran…

Me: Bes, chat mo lang ako kung nasa café ka na.
Me: Malapit lang naman ako.
Friend: (seen)
Me: Papunta ka na, Bes?
Friend: (insert typing icon…for more than a minute)
Friend: (typing icon disappeared)
Me: Bes?
Friend: (seen)
Me: (sent a ‘wave’ icon)
Friend: (no reply)

Kayo ba ay nakaranas na ng ganito?
Sa araw ng singilan,
bigla na lang naglalaho na parang bula.
Asan ang hustisya, friend?

Kaya’t bago pa mahuli ang lahat…

KILALANIN MUNA NG LUBOS BAGO MAGPAUTANG

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Is the person true to his/her words?
Kamusta naman siya bilang kaibigan, anak
o kaya ay pagiging magulang?

May history ba siya ng pagiging palautang
tapos hindi nagbabayad?

Meron ba siyang nahiraman sa barkada niyo noon
tapos hindi na sila in good terms ngayon?

Hindi naman sa pinagdududahan ang tao,
pero mas maigi na yung nakasisigurado.

CHECK MUTUAL FRIENDS singilan

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May common friend ba kayo na
pwedeng mapag-tanungan?

Sabi nila, one of the many ways
we can know a person is through the
way they carry themselves,
how they respond to every situation
and through their friends.

Kung sila ay may paraan para makaiwas sa singilan,
dapat tayo ay meron ding paraan
paano makasingil ng walang atrasan.

HUWAG SUSUKO NA MAG-REMIND singilan

Paulit-ulit man tayong na-si-seen-zoned,
sana’y patuloy pa rin natin silang i-remind
sa mga salitang binitawan nila noong nangungutang pa lang.

Not in a ‘pushy’ way kahit tayo ay naiinis na.
But keeping our self-control and respect towards the person.

Kung ayaw talaga and feeling natin
nasasayang na lang ang oras, laway, at panahon,
ipag pasa Diyos na lang natin and
let it be a lesson for us na mag-ingat na sa susunod.

Focus na lang tayo kung paano ito kikitain muli.

“Nung nangungutang, nagmamakaawa.
Pero nung singilan, nang seen-zoned na. Asan ang hustisya?”
-Chinkee Tan. Filipino Motivational Speaker

THINK. REFLECT. APPLY.

• Ilang beses ka na bang in-indian ng pinautang mo?
• Naging dahilan ba ito para hindi na pagkatiwalaan ang ibang tao?

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